Dr. Drew Relationship Advice

Girlfriend, your a STALKER!!!

Dear Abbey,
I have been seeing this guy off and on for a couple years now but we are still not in a committed relationship. I think is he seeing other girls so I figured out not only his password on his facebook but on his phone too & I check his messages all the time. I know its not healthy or normal but I can't stop doing it. Should I confront him on hooking up with these other girls? We have been together for so long & I still think that we will end up together, should I give him an ultimatium? Do you think there is a chance that we can be in a normal relationship? I don't really want to break up but I am sick of being treated like crap!!

--Laura

Dear Laura, 
Do you ever want to date again? Then STOP stalking this dude. Its pretty obvious that he is just using you as a booty call & that he doesn't want a relationship with you. You are letting this dude walk all over you...you need to stand up for YOURSELF!!! I wouldn't really give him an ultimatium because unless he is a dumbass, he knows you want an exclusive relationship. I would just say 'peace' to this guy & move on. PLUS this guy seems to be bringing out your inner stalker & its best to nip this one at the bud. I say, break up & stop talking to this guy. Trust me, if he loves you & really wants to be with you...he will change his ways!!! You can do it Laura : - ) 

He's just NOT that into you!!!!

Dear Abbey,
I have been dating this guy for almost a month now & he is making no effort to make a commitment to me. We have already slept together & we do everything that boyfriends and girlfriends do but he keeps telling me he just got out of a long relationship & doesnt want a relationship right now. I really like him but I get the feeling I am more into him that he is into me. Should I be hopeful that he will come around or am I wasting my time? -Mary

Dear Mary,
Have you ever heard the saying, "He's just NOT that into you"? Well I defintley think this is the case. It sounds like he is either using you as the rebound or just putting you in the friends with benefit category. It sounds like you are looking for a relationship so you are wasting time hanging with this guy who is just looking for a good time. My advice to you would be to dump this guy & stay single AND availabe til the right guy comes around. Trust me, you will know when the guy is into you because he will be taking you on dates & courting you like any gentleman should. As much fun as your having with this guy, its bound to end in heartbreak because us girls are MUCH more emotional than guys especially after you sleep together. You have an emotional attachment to him & its going to be very hard when you find out your not the only girl on his rooster, if you know what I mean : ) You deserve much better so don't sell yourself short!!!

xoxo
abbey

YOUTUBE AND MUSIC!!!

There are so many singers that are getting record deals off YouTube. Justin Bieber for example, he went from singing Justin Timberlake on YouTube to singing the remake 'We are the World' along with Grammy award winning singers and producers! Its quite inspiring, especially for a 16 year old!! So the question is, how did he do it? How do you get millions of people to watch your videos on YouTube? Sorry to dissapoint but I can't answer that question for you IN FACT I am trying to figure that out myself with my music. It is my goal to find out how to hits on YouTube, followers on Twitter and plays on Myspace Music..when I figure that out, you will ALL be the first to know!! The clock is ticking better get on it NOW!! : - )

Are we to blame????

Hi Everyone!! So I had to do a 30 second rant about a topic for my Hosting Class & I choose Reality TV. As I posted before, there are SO many unrealistic Reality Shows out there. It shouldn't be called 'Reality TV', it should be called
'Fantasy TV' because only in a Fantasy world would hot chicks want to date a 31 year old who lives in his parent's basement & doesn't have a job therefore can't support himself. What world are we really living in when Paris Hilton and Kim Kardashians are our Role Models...really? So your telling me, make a SEX tape & you too will have your reality show, perfume, clothing line..heck my friends had to go to FIDM!! To get to my point, ARE WE TO BLAME? I mean we are the ones watching this nonsense!! I totally get the mindless TV part but what makes me mad is there isn't a show out there that shows the hundreds of struggling Actors, Musicians, Hosts, trying to make it in this business. As much as I love mindless TV, I want to see someone that I can relate to!! Don't you? I think we waste a lot of our time & energy worrying about what celebrities do. TMZ has become a disease & what does Harvey Levin really say to himself  at night when its head hits the pillow?? 'Wow I did absoultey nothing today to better society'. If you agree with me or not, you just got your dose of REALITY CHECK!!!!

REALITY CHECK!!!

Have you ever caught yourself watching a Reality Show that is FAR from Reality? Like "The Hills", I don't know about you but I have NEVER walked into a club past the 100 people in line to the bouncer, smiled & got into the club. Even when I am with friends that are supposively connected, we still have to wait in line like dumb idiots. Unless your Paris Hilton or a some what of a celeb, your going wait outside like everybody else. OR how about "The Basement Affair with Frank the Entertainer"..now who wants to date a 30-something year old who still lives with his parents? And obviously has NO money? The only reason why these girls do is because he was on a couple Reality Shows & in their mind he's Famous!! WOW, the bar has definitley been lowered. I want you all to tell me what shows you feel need a Reality Check & I will do a weekly webisode called 'Reality Check'!!! : - )

Weekly Hottopic!!!

Hi Everyone!!
I am going to write in every week with a NEW Hottopic!! If there is a Hottopic you would like to discuss, feel free to email me!! I think this week it would have to be the rumor that Howard Stern is going to replace Simon Cowell on American Idol. It's just a rumor, OR is it? Who knows, stranger things have happened. I mean Paula was replaced by Ellen, who really doesn't know much about music other than she likes to dance to it on her show. How hard is it to be a judge on American Idol anyways. You can tell who can sing & who sounds like a dying cat! So what do you guys think? Pro Howard Stern? Or are you against it? The show will definitley get viewers they never had before & just may lose viewers. I mean its suppose to be a Family show, no one is going to let their kids watch Howard Sterd. I am sure half the time you won't be able to make out what he says because there are so many blEEPs, true? He will rate the girls based on their boob size instead of their vocal talent & the guys..well I don't think they will stand a chance to win while the STERN is in charge. Don't worry, for now its just a RUMOR!! : )